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Coaching For Life is committed to providing educational products that support and enhance your learning, your growing and your living.  We have products for foster/adoptive parents, for clinical professionals and for anyone who is working toward making the transition from Existing to Living!

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Regulation is Relationship Dependent

Juli weaves years of professional expertise in trauma and relationship dynamics with more than a decade of personal experience as a treatment foster parent.  She provides a framework for understanding, integrating and healing family systems that is powerfully motivating, and inspiring for even the most challenged children and families.  Juli’s gentle, warm and very intimate style of teaching has propelled this product to the top of the charts in child welfare training across the US.  Join Juli as she shares some of her personal stories while teaching you to bring peace, joy and contentment into your homes and practices, through Emotional Regulatory Healing.”

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Regulation is Relationship Dependent

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The Transition from Existing to Living!

Life, with all of its challenges, can become the death of us.  
 
Unless we can begin to see Life as the opportunity for living, with all of its inherent risks, we continue to survive in but a stagnate place of existence.
 
In this inspirational, motivational, educational and sincere conversation, Juli Alvarado provides us with a clear picture of the existence that most of us have come to accept without even knowing it!  And more importantly Juli provides us with step by step suggestions and challenges to support even the most desperate, depressed and hopeless of souls back toward the light of life, and away from the darkness of mere existence.
 
If you struggle to find deep meaning in your life, if you struggle to find the deep connection to others that we all desire, if you struggle to maintain lasting relationships, and if you, like many others, struggle to create a Life full of Joy, Peace and Contentment, join us for this incredible journey on the Transition from Existing to Living!

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The Right Fit: Finding Effective Help for Families with Attachment Challenged Children

This audio program is hosted by Juli Alvarado, MA, LPC, NCC, at Coaching for Life, LLC.  As a President and Clinical Consultant, Juli directs many of CFL’s programs to advocate for youth connected to our child welfare system.  In this interview with Jennifer Winkelmann, MA, LPC, NCC, Juli speaks from her role as a mother to foster and biological children, seeking information for parents on finding the right kind of help for children with attachment challenges.   In this program, Jen and Juli discuss how to find an effective therapist and equip parents and professionals with the keys to successful treatment.

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From Chaos to Calm: Emotional Regulatory Healing: A full LIVE lecture recording

A full day of training by Juli Alvarado would cost you thousands of dollars!  But now, for a very low price, you can hear her, LIVE, in a full 6 hour training, recorded and produced for those of you who may not be able to bring Juli personally into your agencies or homes!  This is an exceptional LIVE recording for but a fraction of the cost.

Overwhelmed, frustrated, baffled and confused by your child’s or client’s ongoing negative behaviors?  Children who have suffered trauma often manifest those traumatic experiences in behavioral presentations that can push the best of us over the edge at times.  In this live lecture recording you will be drawn into a powerfully motivating dialogue offering new insights and understanding of your child’s behaviors, and most importantly what to do with them!  Join Juli as she teaches you Emotional Regulatory Parenting, a new paradigm that has offered increased peace, contentment and regulation to 1000s of families over the past 10 years. ! (Full six hour recording)

$69.95 (Audio CD)

$99.95 (DVD)

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Emotional Regulatory Healing
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Purchase this product (Audio CD or DVD) and receive the Written Healing Guide for $10.00 off.

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From Chaos to Calm: Emotional Regulatory Healing: A Written Healing Guide

A Healing Guide Jam packed with 20 years of research, content, examples and references, this study guide has it all!  Further your understanding of Trauma, Attachment and Regulatory Healing with this bound book, containing the PowerPoint slides from trainings and lectures with Juli Alvarado, along with the content provided in her live trainings!  This guide can be used alone for further understanding or used in conjunction with the Intersection: Live Lecture Audio recordings in the development of your internal training programs and more!  Secure the most vital information today in the power of relationship as the healing agent for children and family victims of trauma. You can not go wrong with this one!

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Emotional Regulatory Healing
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Are you looking to increase permanency for your county, state or agency?

Are you looking to create foster homes internal to your county or state foster care program in order to reduce the cost of private agency placements?

Too many moves, too many disruptions, too many failed adoptions?

Increase permanency outcomes for your county, state or private agency today.  Learn how Juli Alvarado developed the first and one of a kind treatment foster care program in Colorado serving children not any other agency would accept, and doing so successfully!  Coaching For Life is now offering a 3 day intensive training in Emotional Regulatory Healing.  3 days jam packed with education in trauma, regulation and attachment, program development and cutting edge treatment and parenting paradigms that are based on the latest in neuroscientific research, brain development and paradigms for healing that will blow you away!

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Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control:  A Love-Based Approach for Helping Attachment-Challenged Children With Severe Behaviors

Dear friend and colleague of Juli Alvarado, Heather Forbes, LCSW of Florida, has co-authored a phenomenal book on Regulatory Parenting that comes most highly recommended by Coaching For Life, LLC

This book covers in detail the effects of trauma on the body-mind and how trauma alters children’s behavioral responses.  While scientifically based in research, it is written in an easy to understand and easy to grasp format for anyone working with or parenting children with severe behaviors.
lying, stealing, hoarding and gorging, aggression, defiance, lack of eye contact, and yes, even a chapter that talks candidly about how parents appear hostile and angry when they work to simply maintain their families from reaching complete states of chaos.  Each of these chapters talks in depth on these specific behaviors and gives vivid and contrasting examples of how this love-based approach works to foster healing and works to develop relationships, as opposed to the fear-based traditional attachment parenting approaches that are being advocated in today’s attachment field.

The authors have the ability to strip away the fog surrounding these troubled relationships exposing the reality of children’s reactions and dysregulated responses to the past traumatic experiences that so often underlie their difficulty in making close affectional bonds.  Sir Richard Bowlby, Attachment Advocate

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Understand the 9 Most Important Needs for Adoption and Foster Children

In this co-authored, one hour audio training, Juli outlines for you Nine of the most essential needs of traumatized children who arrive to us as foster and adopted children.  Not only will those needs be clarified and explored in depth, Juli also provides the matching essential parenting paradigms for acknowledging, honoring and meeting those needs in our children in specific ways, so that children will not have to act out in order to get those needs met from us again!  This product will set you up with training information not often found in typical foster care and adoption training programs! GREAT for training and resource libraries!

 

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Understand the 9 Most Important Needs for Adoption and Foster Children

Audio CD

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Taking It Home!!! A Survival Handbook for Parents

This handbook offers a quick reference and summary of the training that Juli provides for foster/adoptive parents as well as the clinical professionals who support them. This little gem truly is a must have for everyone who attends a workshop by Juli Alvarado!  Short and Sweet:  Reminders for Regulation

 

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Taking It Home!!! A Survival Handbook for Parents

Handbook

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Emotionally Regulated Men!: The importance of the masculine influence

Men and women do relate and regulate differently at times.  Working to bring couples together at home, and men to a regulated foundation in relationship at work can be overlooked due to the limited number of men working in child welfare today. This audio cd  special provides men(and their partners) a deep look at the journey toward contentment and regulation in relationship through a personal interview with special guest: Eric Guy, LCSW(www.centerforvictory.com)

 

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Emotionally Regulated Men!

Audio CD

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Regulation is Relationship Dependent and

Understand the 9 Most Important Needs for Adoption and Foster Children

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Entire CFL Product Library

One day with Juli Alvarado cost $1000's but now you can purchase her entire library for a fraction of that cost!  Includes the following CFL products:

  • Regulation is Relationship Dependent

  • The Right Fit: Finding Effective Help for Families with Attachment Challenged Children

  • From Chaos to Calm: Emotional Regulatory Healing: A full LIVE lecture recording (both cd and dvd version)

  • From Chaos to Calm: Emotional Regulatory Healing: A Written Healing Guide

  • Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control:  A Love-Based Approach for Helping Attachment-Challenged Children With Severe Behaviors

  • Understand the 9 Most Important Needs for Adoption and Foster Children

  • Taking It Home!!! A Survival Handbook for Parents

  • Emotionally Regulated Men!: The importance of the masculine influence 

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